"Home" is a Voice
[Photo: Fluffernutter, who gives me "sense of home."] #Grief#Voice#Friendship#ReflectingonInteriorSenseofHome#BookComing I attended an online offering by the author David Kessler this week. He spoke beautifully about what our culture needs when it comes to grief and bereavement. One of the lines I jotted down in my notes was, “we can’t heal what we don’t feel.” And I thought of my friend J. She had called me spontaneously the day before to share her sorrow at the loss of my parents — of her parents — it was the same loss for each of us I felt when we connected through the phone speakers. I had started to talk about why I hadn’t called in a long while and she had answered through tears: Oh,that is not what I am thinking about at all . I am so sorry you lost your parents, and I am so sorry I lost my parents.” And in that expression of feeling I heard a familiar and tender timbre that I hadn’t heard for a long time, and I felt a sense of home w...