Circularity, the mind's embedding of stories



September 16, 2022  If I had to create a symbol for the last few years, it would be a circle.

So many circles have come to mind. At the same time, I've missed circles: the kind created
when several people come together, and sit around a fire, for example.
A fire circle.

The circle I have been thinking a lot about is one created by narrative. We have these family Zooms, you see, and after more than two years listening to people speaking, I have started to recognize
circularity. Coming back to a story that has been told before.

The way that the brain changes as we age and becomes more circuitous.
What if:
We were re-telling stories we have already told in order to seal them into others' memories, and our own?
What if repetition of the same story were considered a golden gift and never judged as less?
Circularity. The embedding of stories.

 

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